What the hell is it with people? The boy and i have "officially" been together 12 months (living together and sleeping together for 17 lol) it took me almost 10 months to meet his parents (scary! but they are truly wonderful people)
anyway, the amount of our friends/family who keep asking us when we are getting engaged, when are we having kids etc etc. it's driving me nuts
the worst culprits are his best friend and my best friend....
The boy and i met through our best friends who hooked up (and are now married but we didnt go to their wedding LONG story) Anyway, these friends of ours got engaged after only knowing eachother and being together for 3 months. they got married after being together for 13 months. All they do is fight. theyre actually not the greatest friends to have, very toxic and complete shit stirrers, but thats a whole other story in itself.
so of course now they seem to think because they are married we should be too. The boy and i have already talked about this and will most likely getmarried at the end of 2009/start of 2010. and engaged sometime this year
but it makes me so mad when people think they have the right to tell us how to run our relationship, when we should get engaged, when we should get married. people really suck sometimes
and now......HIS mother asks him every time they talk when he's going to give her grandkids, and my mother has been hinting on it. i have cousins i am close to who keep willing me to get pregnant.
just bitching because i really fucking hate people today
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
Marriage, Kids, etc etc
Posted by Leah at 6:02 PM
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Same has happened to me as well. I have been with my guy since 2001 and pretty much ever since his mum has been hassling me for grandkids. Also the boy has started hassling me now too! We only just got engaged in November. So take your time and dont do anything until you both feel it is right.
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